--Written April 2016 We've bought into a lie. This lie for the most part tells us to have aspirations and seek to fulfill them to find your purpose in the game called life. This lie says go to school after you graduate and become popular on some campus, get your dream job, marry the dream girl, or do a lot of traveling. Only then will your life be one with purpose. Once these things that we have aspired to... or put in front of us... what we're chasing... come to pass then, and only then, will true satisfaction come into your life. I've been thinking a lot, especially now that my time at the school I attended is coming to a close. I had so many expectations for school going into it. Some of my aspirations included being friends with a lot of people, being a leader, being a leader of a lot of things actually, being a role model for those younger than me, being someone people could depend on, being one of the hardest workers at my job, being the couple with my gir